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Archive for February, 2010

Dating, Sex and Love

Dating does not mean there is sex in the equation.  I’m dating to meet new people, to open up my world to new experiences, broaden my horizons, keep life interesting–not to acquire a fuck buddy pool. Sex does not equal love.  Sex between two consenting adults can be mind-blowing if there is a connection.  And [...]

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I’m drunk while I’m writing this…

I still feel AWFUL about the post I made about a recent date…I suck. I am learning about how everybody has things they are passionate about and whether or not they meet your “standards” it really doesn’t matter…they are groovin’ to their own beat and you need to at least groove with them in the [...]

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Self-Censorship

I don’t like it, I don’t agree with it.  However, when my words hurt another human being and I know about it, I need to consider a balance.  I took a post down because it hurt someone — I was honest with my opinion and thought process but the post was about me and the [...]

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My Deepest Apologies

To the handsome man with the Vanagon: My post about our date was never meant to hurt you, rather it was meant to help me wrestle with my demons.  As I sat across from someone who laughed openly and wore the evidence of having a good heart on his face, all I could feel was [...]

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